Here’s how Body Count affects your Relationships

One topic so many don’t like to hear or even talk about…

Body count

Some find pride in having a large body count, others feel a form of low self-esteem for having little to no body count.

There’s so much advice out there telling you to sleep with multiple people before you can find the “ONE”

and this leads some into a downward spiral of using sex to fill up the void they have within themselves.

Truth is, having a large body count destroys your ability to connect on a deeper level with an individual in a romantic relationship.

Maybe your friends are telling you that while you’re single you need to explore the dating pool.

“Date multiple people till you find the ONE. Test the waters before you dive in and lock yourself up! Try before you buy so you know what you’re getting it.”

Honestly, how many people can you sleep with in a lifetime?

Naturally, a romantic relationship is supposed to be a pure connection, bond, and companionship between two individuals, and having a body count distorts that in the long term.

As a woman, body count does affect your inner beauty, essence, and radiance. It affects your Inner happiness and your ability to feel or receive love. Sex is basically all about the transfer of energies between both parties. Multiple body counts will lead to multiple soul ties. a piece of every person is now tied to you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

For example; Imagine being married and you’re comparing your sexual experience with your spouse to the sexual encounters you’ve had with multiple exes. This can lead you to go back to sleep with an ex you feel is better in bed than your spouse.

You don’t want to take unhealthy soul ties into your marriage or relationship because it can cause the breakdown of the relationship.

Remember, you are the “ONE” you are looking for.

Cheers,

Sarah Ize-Iyamu