Why he stopped pursuing you and what you can do to reignite his interest

Has your man stopped showing interest, stopped pursuing you, leaving you confused about what to do?

If that has been a problem for you, then worry no more.

I’m Sarah, a love and relationship coach for ambitious women.

I’ll be showing the reasons why Mr. Right stops showing interest and most importantly, what you can do to fix it and even make it better.

So, what happened?

You used to chat, text, and have fun together with your dream man, but lately, things seem a bit less exciting.

See, you don’t have to stress over it dear, it’s just a minor problem.

Over the years as a love and relationship problem guide for amazing ladies, I’ve seen this happen lots of times! I mean, A LOT.

But don’t worry, there’s an effective solution,

So, In this blog post, we’ll discuss why he’s not pursuing you as much and how you can make things better!

Reason #1: You’re being too needy

The No1 mistake I see a lot of people make is being too needy. And that’s a red flag.

But no need to worry, no judging here.

After many years of experience helping thousands of amazing women worldwide find their dream guy and keep the love alive in their relationships, I’ve noticed something common.

You, being awesome with your high standards, attract a certain type of Guys.

But here’s the thing: sometimes you might feel like there’s not enough of the good things.

When a nice guy shows up, it’s easy to get very focused and excited.

The tricky part is that this level of excitement can make you seem “needy,” like a monkey seeing passersby with a bunch of bananas

It’s like showing you really, really want it, and guys can feel that.

The common signs are: Checking your phone for his messages, replying immediately, talking about him all the time, and praising him among your friends.

The trick is to feel like you’re a rare diamond

If you want him to pursue you and commit, just remember, you’re the Sweet Queen here dear.

When dating, always consistently show him that you are the complete and whole person with or without him. It was up to him to make an effort for me, not the other way around

Reason #2: You revealed everything about yourself too early and now there’s no sense of surprise left.

Remember the monkey analogy in reason #1? I’ll be using it again for easier understanding.

Hungry monkeys would keep coming back for bananas. No matter how many bananas you give them, eventually, they’ll wander off for other adventures, like swinging from tree to tree or swimming in the water.

The same applies to men.

When you’re always available through texts, calls, and dates, it’s like offering them an endless supply of bananas.

It might feel intense and too much, too soon.

Being always available without doing something tangible with your time can make him lose interest fast.

So, are you guilty of this?

Reason #3: You neglected your own needs for him.

Imagine this scenario: He asks you out, and you start dropping everything – your friends, family time, business, even your goals – just to be with him.

Does this reasonates?

It’s like putting his wishes way up above, while yours were invisible.

Now here’s the point: men feel it when you’re not prioritizing yourself. It’s like this vibe they pick up on, and trust me, it’s not the kind of connection you want.

Let’s be real, dearie.

We’ve all been there – we meet a potential man and suddenly our world centers around him.

Many ladies find themselves abandoning what they are doing currently at the moment to “please” the man they’re dating.

Needless to say, it won’t work out.

The truth is that: neglecting yourself is a one-way ticket to Putting off his interest.

Also, When you value his opinions and needs ALL THE TIME above your own, it’s like showing him “you don’t see yourself as a Queen”

But YOU are a Queen!

Never forget it.

Reason #4: You’re scared to set limits because you have feelings for him.

Now here’s where it gets interesting because the fourth reason is all about not putting up with any nonsense.

Look, the reason why your man stopped pursuing you is pretty simple.

You’ve let him get away with some bad behaviors. We’ve all been there, maybe giving in when he does things he shouldn’t or ignoring those warning signs. But let’s be honest – when you let him cross those lines, you’re basically telling him it’s fine.

Imagine him showing up late, flirting with others in your preference, or disappearing after promising to call. Ouch, right?

Here’s the thing: Every time you let these bad actions slide, you’re showing him it’s fine by you. And honestly, that’s not something impressive.

Consider this: dating is about knowing you’re awesome and shining like the superstar you are. So, the next time he pulls any of that nonsense, it’s your time to shine even brighter.

You don’t need a script; a confident chat can do wonders.

Setting boundaries in dating and showing your worth is how you keep him pursing, not running away.

Self-love and relationships go hand-in-hand.

Reason #5: You’ve acted more like a leader when you’re with him.

OMG, this is a red flag, Dearie

Have you ever found yourself making the first move instead of him? Yeah, it happens – a text here, a call there.

You think, “Why not? Just one text won’t hurt.”

But before you know it, you’re already taking charge.

Imagine a scenario where he didn’t suggest a date, but you stepped up and asked, “Hey, when are we meeting?”

Seems innocent, right?

Even if you think it’s all okay, he’ll be instantly picking up a different vibe.

Suddenly, you’re the one chasing after him.

What would be running through his mind would be “She’s really into me.” And guess what? He might pull back because, deep down, he feels the roles have switched.

2 Ways to Get Him Back To Pursuing You

Alright Dearie,

Are you wondering how to make him pursue you again? But this time… passionately?

Here are two simple tricks to have you back in the spotlight:

1. Show Off Your Girly Radiance: Use social media to let him see your awesome life. Share cool pictures and stories, so he gets a peek at your charm. Guys love seeing things, and your positive vibes will remind him of what he’s missing. and trust me, this works so well.

2. Put more Focus on Yourself: If you want to be the star, then try Meeting new people, enjoy the journey, and keep living your amazing life. When your happiness doesn’t rely on his approval, you become a magnetic force of charm in a soft way.

Taking a step back to develop yourself and meet new people means giving yourself more chances to explore different options instead of sticking to just one person and getting too serious too quickly!

For more information, check it out here.

Remember, you’re the Queen, and your vibe is the secret sauce.

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The Takeaway

Okay, Dearie

Now you understand all of the reasons he has stopped showing you interest and the ways to fix it!

Always remember YOU are the Sweet Queen he’s after!

A valuable reward doesn’t tolerate mistreatment, neediness, or compromise its worth. Keep him pursuing by embracing your beautiful feminine essence, reigning like the queen you are!

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