How to use Feminine Energy to get a High-Quality Man to pursue you

In today’s blog, let’s discuss using your feminine energy to make a great guy want to be with you. 

If you’re a successful woman who wants a high-quality man to notice you and win your heart, this is for you! But before we get into it, there are two important things to keep in mind.

#1: You Can’t Force a Man!

We get tons of advice online about ‘’how to make a man fall in love’ or ‘making a man chase you.’ 

But here’s the key: You can’t force a man to do anything. It’s a myth. Trying to control someone isn’t the feminine way. With Feminine Energy, you don’t control the outcome. 

We should never have complete control over another person. The man you want is his own person, and his choices matter.

So, here’s the deal: using your feminine energy won’t magically make a man do whatever you want. 

Now, the good news is we may not have full ‘control,’ but we’ve got something even better which is INFLUENCE. 

Of course, this isn’t about taking charge; it’s about increasing the chances of success and getting that high-quality man to pursue you for a lifelong commitment.

By taking charge, it means you want to control the whole process while Influence is about making things work in your favor, improving your chances of success with the man you like.

Using Feminine energy in that high-value like  I’ve always mentioned, it gives you a strong influence over men.

#2: Don’t go after men!

Here’s what I mean…

In the world of love and relationships, women don’t chase men.

Masculine energy men are naturally designed to go after women. Not the other way around.

Just as bees seek nectar in flowers, or butterflies are sought by admirers, high-value feminine women don’t actively pursue men.

Now, keeping this in mind, let’s explore the top three ways to get a great man to pursue you.

Tip #1: Be Appealing!

By being appealing, I don’t mean you need to stress about losing weight or having a perfect skin tone. It’s about feeling good the way you are. 

Remember, guys are mostly visual. They like what they see and they won’t pursue you if they don’t feel desire. 

What I’m getting at is the romantic aspect of receiving sexual attention and a man wanting to be intimate with you. There’s nothing wrong with a man having physical desire for us; in fact, it’s a crucial part of the romantic journey.

One thing I do suggest to all my coaching clients is to genuinely showcase your best selves.

In online dating, it’s as easy as ensuring your pictures are clear, well-lit, and capture your best angles. 

Being appealing can also contain:

Revealing a little skin.

Trying out new hairstyles.

Wearing colorful dresses.

Wearing your finest clothes.

Experimenting with a bit of makeup.

If there’s any hesitation, then you should ask yourself why you resist presenting your best self. Do you judge the idea of feminine women wearing makeup and pretty dresses? If so, it might be worth exploring deeper healing and inner work.

Just ensure you’re genuinely presenting your best self.

Tip #2: Let Him Take the Lead

What does it mean to let him take the lead? Well, as successful women, we’re used to going after what we want – a message from feminism that says, “You can have it all, go get it!”

However, applying these career success principles to love often falls short. Why? Because it’s DIFFERENT! 

Romance operates on biology and the principles of attraction and sexual polarity, which require a different approach.

It’s crucial, no matter how successful you are, you need to honor the balance between being strong (Masculine) and gentle (Feminine) in your love life. 

Let the guy take the lead, initiate, and pursue you, especially in the early stages of dating. Many successful women understand this but stay focused on the end result.

Here’s what they do: They take a step back, chill out, and think, “I’ll let the guy do the chasing,” but deep down, they’re pretty nervous about how things will turn out.

This is still masculine. If you’re not calling a guy but anxiously waiting for his call (“Isn’t he going to text? Why is he taking forever to call?”), you’re not fully in your Feminine Energy.

Being totally surrendered means believing that if a man is meant for you, he’ll take the lead without you doing anything.

You should think of it like how simple it is for you to send a text. It’s quick. Well, that’s how easy it is for a guy who likes you and wants you.

This is why it’s crucial to remember that men are their own people. You might be an incredible woman, but you might not be the right fit for a particular man.

Instead of stressing and doubting yourself, know that if he truly wants it, he’ll make a move. You don’t have to go extra miles.

This is the real deal with using Feminine Energy—completely letting go and accepting the man’s role in chasing you, energetically.

Tip #3: Be Welcoming and Friendly

The final tip for attracting a high-quality man is to be warm and friendly. 

In a world full of confusing dating advice like pretending disinterest, it’s easy to get scared of seeming too eager. 

Embracing your feminine energy doesn’t mean acting cold – let’s break down those walls and be open and welcoming instead.

Being friendly is crucial! Valuable, confident men won’t chase you if it feels like a game. They want a connection without hurdles. 

So, being warm when a guy shows interest is key. It signals safety for him to pursue. Making it easy for him isn’t chasing; it’s appreciating his effort. 

It’s as easy as saying something nice to show you appreciate him. Here are some simple examples:

“Wow, waking up to your message made my morning!”

“I love hearing your voice!”

“This date you planned is amazing. Thanks a bunch!”

This is what Feminine Energy is about: feeling safe, warm, inviting, and soft.

Don’t hesitate to express your feelings and let your happiness show. It’s the key to keeping him interested and coming back for more.

“Don’t be afraid to share your heart!.”

Using your feminine energy to make a man chase you is just the beginning. Feminine energy is vital for a strong romantic connection, and it’s not just something men desire—it’s essential for us women too, empowering us to thrive in our lives.

I hope you found this helpful.

So, if you want to know how to bring positive energy into your life, find your perfect match, or enhance your current relationship, then you might want to get into Cherished & Committed Program.

This is my private coaching program that will help you heal your emotional wounds and attract an emotionally healthy man so you can thrive in both love and money. 

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